ok ladies, working off of the website that dashionista posted in the girl thread.
what do you think are the ESSENTIALS for jewelry? i know most people have like 1230958203958 pairs of earrings (i personally have 2, and i don't even wear 1 of those 2). but what do you think you actually almost HAVE to have?
here is the list that the website had:
diamond stud earrings
white pearl stud earrings
hoop earrings
fun earrings
dressy dangle earrings
pearl necklace
diamond pendant necklace
statement necklace
metal chain bracelet
metal dress watch
cocktail ring
(you said this a few posts later and I forgot to quote that one: "the argument could be made that nothing is actually essential wrt jewelry. i guess what we're going for here is more "really great accessories that are just standards for you"")
I don't have/wear most of those jewelry items. My watch battery died a couple years ago and I haven't bothered getting it fixed. The links were never quite the right size so it was a little too big, but when I took out one link it got too small. So I'd wear it to the office and immediately take it off at my desk because otherwise it would just clatter against my keyboard/desk when typing. That's also why I don't wear bracelets. I wear my Wake class ring every day but find big bulky rings (so, cocktail rings) to be uncomfortable.
I don't wear any gold so all my stuff is silver (or white gold, whatever). I have a number of simple thin chain necklaces with small charms that I wear one almost daily. Generally I go with the simple necklaces. I'm not exactly sure what makes something a "statement necklace" but I have a few longer ones (I think having at least one long necklace is helpful in terms of accessories, I have two I wear mostly, one just silver and one with multi-colored beads) and some short ones with more pizazz (colors/beads/multiple strands). It takes a lot more planning for me to wear a noticeable necklace. Usually I get dressed and choose jewelry last but for me, I'd have to choose a "statement necklace" first then plan the rest of the outfit around it. I don't have anything with real or fake diamonds. I have a couple strands of pearls but I wear my less-traditional gray/black freshwater pearls way more often than my traditional white cultured pearls. I feel like pearls are too preppy for me.
This is my go-to necklace, from
J.H. Breakell which I love. I have this star as well as a cross and a snowflake:
I've been fawning over this necklace (handmade recycled glass beads from Ghana) for years but can't justify $220 for a necklace:
And I have a bajillionty pairs of earrings. Silver in assorted shapes. Some studs and small hoops but mostly dangles that are max like 1.5 inches long. No diamond studs though. Like my thoughts on a pearl necklace, I feel like my white pearl studs are kind of hoity-toity but frequently they work for the office, especially when I have my hair pulled back and don't feel comfortable wearing dangle earrings. I keep meaning to get a pair of earrings like this:
I love bangles and hate wearing a watch because I don't like anything tight around my wrist. So I'm the anti-lbe. (Except I have small wrists too!)
I like the jewelry list (though I'm a total hippy when it comes to diamonds). I also like having a few simple rings where I can wear more than one at once without it looking like too much.
My sister in law got me these great earrings for my birthday. They are basically a pink square rock with a gold square backing that have all these little thin gold rectangles that dangle down. So they jingle when I move my head around. (It is the simple things in life that make me happy.)
ahh I have a few pairs of earrings that jingle and it drives me bonkers. I can wear them out and about sometimes but never to work because putting the phone against them makes me crazy.