Vadtoy, before she was vadtoy, dated a Navy SEAL and became good friends with a group of them - she broke up with the guy she was dating, but she kept the friends. One of them was killed in the incident depicted in the Lone Survivor movie, another was one of the two from that story just posted. I met him several times, and his wife and my wife are still friends via Facebook, etc ... we even spent New Year's together in one of the first times vadtoy and I went out to anything together.
I don't know what demons you carry after 13+ years of nearly constant combat service, but I wouldn't wish them on anyone ... and I'm sure post-retirement staying on crappy, isolated ships just hoping to not be shot at by tin can pirates doesn't help whatever they are. Just a horrible story, and I feel terrible for his wife and family. Him dying overseas was probably something they always thought might happen (these guys were constantly being put into places where ordinary humans would last under 15 minutes), but not like this. And not this publicly - with the Daily Mail trawling Facebook to plaster his family all over the internet, etc ... just awful for them.