A few months ago, we had a pretty interesting thread on adoption, both folks who were adopted and parents who adopted.
We have a 5 YO adopted daughter from Vietnam. We are as Swedish looking as you can get so she's pretty aware she's different. We also talk a lot about her being adopted and being from Vietnam. She generally gets it but she's 5 so she gets a little confused. We think she gets it then she talks about when she was in my wife's "tummy".
We aren't a family that dwells on the adoption and we don't define her experiences etc. as some adoptive families do. She's a well adjusted, sweet girl and she's been a piece of cake to raise. I certainly understand those that do, we just feel that the less we differentiate it from our biological son, the better it is for our family.
Im curious about other's experiences talking to their kids, etc if anyone cares to share.
We have a 5 YO adopted daughter from Vietnam. We are as Swedish looking as you can get so she's pretty aware she's different. We also talk a lot about her being adopted and being from Vietnam. She generally gets it but she's 5 so she gets a little confused. We think she gets it then she talks about when she was in my wife's "tummy".
We aren't a family that dwells on the adoption and we don't define her experiences etc. as some adoptive families do. She's a well adjusted, sweet girl and she's been a piece of cake to raise. I certainly understand those that do, we just feel that the less we differentiate it from our biological son, the better it is for our family.
Im curious about other's experiences talking to their kids, etc if anyone cares to share.