Just seeing this question from a week ago -
Portland is fine. There are demonstrations every night, yes; I hesitate to call them 'protests' because they're seemingly more and more focused on antagonizing police facilities and the officers who are there. People are showing up with their own plywood shields, and other are throwing things and using lasers to disable the officers who are there. When this happens, the event becomes an unlawful assembly and the police officers are able to employ force (CS gas, loudspeakers) to disperse the crowd... but these days the crowd fights back. On more than one occasion people have barricaded the doors of buildings and lit fires outside of them. The other night they tried to light the awnings, then threw stuff at the officers on the roof trying to put it out with an extinguisher. This is blatantly criminal activity and should not be conflated with the BLM message and the honest efforts to lift up BIPOC voices.
Those who are engaging in this criminal behavior believe they're doing a good thing and claim they won't stop until the police are abolished. This is ... just not reasonable. Their adamant stance makes me truly curious what will be the end of all this, though. Continuing on as this has for the last 90+ days is untenable.
During the daytime, there are still gatherings, protests, marches, etc. Those are interesting and safe; I'd be fine taking the kids to them.
Whatever the news is saying, bear in mind that pretty much all images are coming from a 2-block area in a large city. My daughter's daycare is 5 blocks away from 'the action' and I have zero hesitation in taking her there every day.