Not as many years ago, a very brilliant student in my racial strat class was giving a presentation on John Edgar Wideman's "Brothers and Keepers" (still one of the greatest books I've ever read) about racial disparities in the criminal justice system. She keeps using the phrase, "prison abolition." I think, "what the hell does that mean? There is no way that would EVER happen. That's not even possible." I THINK. But I don't SAY. Instead, I read. And add a few follows on Twitter that help a lot. And it turns out, it's entirely consistent with what I have been teaching for years, on non-violent mass incarceration and massive disinvestment in public and social services. Glad I kept my mouth shut. Lots of my students know more than me on lots of things but I can always learn.
You don't have to know everything. But you shouldn't have strong opinions about things you know nothing about. And even if you do, you don't have to share them. I don't understand white people's obsession with their ancestry. I have good reasons. But I don't have to be mad about it. You can choose what you say and how you respond to your "I don't knows." You can choose.