i am feeling a little down today. my wife and her best friend are having some issues and it makes me sad. i am a peacemaker (enneagram 9) and don't like conflict, but trying to remember that their issues aren't mine and I need to respect their boundaries and not force a false resolution just because i'm not happy. It's not my fight.
thanks for asking
I am a big problem solver and I struggle a lot when my wife is venting about stuff. I just want to give advice to help her fix her problem, but that is not what she is looking for. Been hard to suppress that instinct.
i am feeling a little down today. my wife and her best friend are having some issues and it makes me sad. i am a peacemaker (enneagram 9) and don't like conflict, but trying to remember that their issues aren't mine and I need to respect their boundaries and not force a false resolution just because i'm not happy. It's not my fight.
thanks for asking
Richmond is definitely on a list of cities I would consider moving to. I have family and friends there and enjoy the vibe there.
Charlotte
Richmond
Winston
Charlottesville
Jacksonville
I know those places well enough that I think they’d be a good fit. This is obviously a much different list than I had before 2 kids.
Yeah it took me a decade to realize I just needed to shut up and listen, even though the answer to my wife’s problems seem obvious to me
I am a big problem solver and I struggle a lot when my wife is venting about stuff. I just want to give advice to help her fix her problem, but that is not what she is looking for. Been hard to suppress that instinct.
I think Chupe quit when rj wasn’t banned a year or two ago
Yeah I live on the right side of that continuum.