Anybody who went to Wake Forest and has a mountain of student loan debt has irresponsible and enabling parents. OR, you personally made bad decisions in your late teens, despite being smart enough to get into WF. Complaining that you can't afford it after the fact shows how little thought you put into your actions. If you graduated from Wake with $50K of debt (or more), when you could have gone to State or UNC or some other public college with virtually no debt, and then you made a bad decision.
I agree that public universities are underfunded and the spiraling cost of tuition is unconscionable. The government has caused much of that by participating in these loans. But the lack of personal responsibility that some of you are exhibiting is astounding. But it's not surprising considering the sources.
Not paying back money that you borrowed, supposedly in good faith, is immoral. There are ways to graduate from college with minimal student loan debt that you can't afford, including not going to grad school for ten years.
Now, if you went to a public university and graduated in four years and took advantage of every program to lessen your debt, you probably deserve some help.