For forensic:
Go to Downtown Disney and hang out. Take a boat over to the Port Orleans resorts. It's a 20-30 min ride.
Take a bus to Animal Kingdom Lodge. At least four years ago, there was an animal viewing area in the lobby.
See if you can find info about playgrounds that aren't in the parks.
dash:
Here is a podcast review of bars and lounges at Disney World:
http://www.wdwtoday.com/article.php?story=20130322073235954
You can probably find links to info about things for young single ladies to do at the park. Disney Food Blog has info about restaurants and bars as well.
Magic Kingdom has changed a lot in 3 years with New Fantasyland, but it's not worth going for if you don't want to go for the old stuff.
I think you have to stay at Universal to skip the lines there. Not sure about that.