over where i get married. they're REALLY pushing for charlotte. i REALLY don't want charlotte. both of our families live in the area (charlotte, cornelius, mooresville), so it obviously makes sense to get married here, but asheville or other mountain towns really just fit with dhtoy's and my personality SO much better. we really want a venue that feels like "us", so we've kind of defaulted to the mountains. but my parents are thinking of my cousins/aunts/uncles/etc and being like "seriously, you're going to make them pay for a hotel room, when they have NEVER paid for a hotel room for a family wedding before." i get where he's coming from, but i had my heart set on the mountains. basically, i'm being a spoiled brat and focusing on what i want, rather than what's easiest on everybody else. i know it's my fault, but i just had a vision for what i wanted, and am really unwilling to let go of that vision.