I got it off youtube search--I think I put in "welfare queen". I am sure it came from some right wing website trying to show how good welfare recipients have it, but I do think the numbers she quotes are correct. They seem to correlate with the ones from the CATO study you gave us. This is not an outlier, it is what a single mother in CA with 4 children can expect to get from welfare. I would not worry too much about the source of this video if you agree that she is getting what she says.
If you do agree, I am asking whether more cash will help. I don't think it will. I think she is stuck on welfare for the forseeable future and that she is unlikely to develop any marketable job skills while she is on welfare.
Fine. There is no program you can invent that will not be gamed by some people, and a small minority of people are not interested in improving themselves (or to look at it in a less prejudicial way, are not motivated by more material success). Who cares? Those people are not representative of the vast majority of recipients of aid, and it is impossible to design a program that will weed out the "virtuous poor" from the "lazy poor". People have been trying for centuries and it cannot be done. The only way to even get close would be to create an even more invasive government bureaucracy to supervise the citizenry and decide whether they are deserving of aid - the JHMD proposal, I believe.
The basic objection to any welfare program is that lazy people will take advantage of it. So what? The lazy people are going to take advantage of whatever you do, and doing nothing is not an option because Americans reject sentencing the poor to live in mass homeless camps with starving kids. If the government does nothing, the lazy will take advantage of private charity, too, and private charity does not have nearly the scale to meet the need and never will, libertarian fantasy notwithstanding. There is huge expense and effort in having a paternalistic government weeding out the "lazy poor".
The way out of the trap is to move toward a much simpler system of poor relief, like some kind of UBI. It hugely reduces government bureaucracy and cost. It simplifies the whole system and makes it more predictable, which reduces the stress associated with poverty and helps people make better decisions. You can make part of it conditional cash transfers to make people vaccinate their kids and keep them in school. It gives entrepreneurial types a base in that they can choose to live 20 to a house and save their UBI money to fund their business. It gives artistic types an opportunity to create social capital for the rest of us. It gives all the rest of us working schlubs something to fall back on when we lose our jobs or become disabled or get old. The amounts would not allow anyone to live in luxury (i.e., they should be set at approximately the tax-impacted equivalent of a minimum wage standard of living), and history and human nature have established that the vast majority of people do desire to have the dignity of a job and rise above a basic standard of living. Again, 3% unemployment in the late 90s, and much higher workforce participation rates then vs. now. The welfare system was no less generous then than now, but the overwhelming majority chose to be employed instead of on welfare when jobs were available.
It's like the war on drugs in some ways. No matter how hard you try, you will never, ever get 100% compliance with drug laws and completely shut off the supply. The effort and intrusiveness of trying is much more expensive and destructive than just letting people be people and treating the minority who get addicted.
So that's the rant on UBI. I am about out of rant for today.