I actually regret it in a lot of ways, and looking back I should have gone there. I probably would have if there wasn't a decent amount of turmoil going on in my life at the time. And my dad made the same deal with me regarding th Porsche, but I still didn't take it.
I came off sounding judgmental-not my intent. Few decisions are as momentous and stressful as college and looking back, I can't believe we expect people at that age to make such a decision regardless of the help and guidance we give them. Coming from a military family, I knew there was zero chance of me having the personal discipline and willingness to submit to military rigors so that was that. Went to Wake and as much as it's a part of my life, my kids don't have to follow.