He's not a bad person, no need to go down the bashing road. One thing he cited was how we sat in silence for a while driving back from his friends' wedding in PA a couple weeks ago when everyone else in the car was asleep. He was like "I guess that goes back to having little in common if we had nothing to talk about," where I remember thinking about how it's nice to be comfortable in silence with someone and not feel the need to just chatter to fill space. I think he's more of a romantic and I am not. I was really enjoying how we fit into each others' social lives and then just did everyday things like have dinner, sit on the couch and watch some TV, go to Costco (lol), it was just comfortable. Guess he was looking for like fireworks and sparks and whatnot. Maybe I can still find a runner. And someone who lets foods touch on his plate, and who likes good beers.