This happened this morning to a friend of mine at F3 in Durham. At least it started a good conversation among some white folks. I would be nice if we all listened to Black voices and not dismiss them because it doesn't line up with our experience:
This happened just this morning: I work out at 5:30a at a bootcamp workout, followed by group prayer. This morning was my turn to lead the workout (I was the only Black man today, everyone else was White). I go to our normal location to set up at 5a, dressed in workout gear, holding orange soccer cones and sheets of paper with workouts printed on them. As I set up the workouts on each corner of the block, a squad car pulls up. I give a friendly wave and continue setting up (even demonstrating the exercise to ensure I have the right set up). The squad car follows me from the first, all the way to the THIRD corner, then lights on. I immediately drop the work out sheets and cones and put hands up. I say, "Good morning officer. I'm unarmed, I'm just setting up a work out." He asks (hand on firearm) if I have ID. I respond "No sir, I'm in workout gear, my ID is in the car." Just then, one of our workout buddies arrives (who himself is White and a Police officer), greets him, (OFFICER TAKES HAND OFF WEAPON WHEN HE ARRIVES) introduces himself (Sgt X from Y precinct) and says "I know him, he's a friend of mine, we work out together," then explains the group. All the while, I still have my hands in the air. The officer gets back in the car, no apology, no explanation, no acknowledgement, and pulls off. My friend apologizes profusely for him and tells me that has never happened in nearly four years of the group workout. We talk about it, the inequities, the effect that this type of interaction has on the Black community, all of us nearly in tears.