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If my job was my life? For 12 months?

If you're going to do it, this is the time. Newly single. Probably need some time before getting back out on the market. You're not in your 20s and you probably know your stuff so your work time would probably get more of a return.

Better than moping around and being sad about it especially of you can put yourself in he position to back off when things are better.
 
What's going to happen in a year after you bust ass, and your company now expects that level of commitment and success from you? Raising expectations is dangerous.
 
Do just enough to not get fired and concentrate on chasing tail. I'm close to your age and got divorced a couple years ago and it's has been a hell of a run. Better than college by a long shot.


Divorced a while ago and still single. I endorse this plan. So much fun to be had out there.
 
Talk with Lawyers. They essentially do this for the first 5+ years of their careers.

Yeah I was gonna say that this is what I expect to be doing in three years FML.

But I wouldn't encourage it, life's too short, enjoy the newly minted single life and do the outrageous things that you've missed while being married. Blow off some steam, act like a college guy again (within reason). Life's just too short.
 
What's going to happen in a year after you bust ass, and your company now expects that level of commitment and success from you? Raising expectations is dangerous.

In all honesty, my goal would be realistically positioning myself for a V.P. slot, with which my life would change dramatically. For better and for worse, but mostly better. Probably also improve my chances on the Skirt-Chasing circuit. ;)
 
What's going to happen in a year after you bust ass, and your company now expects that level of commitment and success from you? Raising expectations is dangerous.

This.

Get serious about working out and skirt chasing. Sack-up, and be a GD patriotic Amurican.
 
There are a few questions you should answer.

1) What will "job = life" really get you at the end of 12 months? Most of my career has been at a company where heavy busting ass meant a raise of 5.5% versus 3.5% for cruising, a bonus of 95% of target versus 85% of target and a few thousand dollars of company shares. So, you could bust your hump working an extra say, 2,000 hours to get an extra, say, $15,000 (all numbers are just examples). That's $7.50 an hour, about like working at McDonalds.

2) How do people really rise up the ladder? At the aforementioned company, who you have lunch with or have Thursday drinks with has a MUCH larger impact than job performance. Personally I started having more success (raises/bonuses/promotions) by paying attention to these other factors and worked less hours than when i was cranking out tons of hours and producing more.

3) How often does org structure change? You could bust your ass this year, impress the hell out of your boss but in 18 months if you have a reorg that sends your boss to manage QA and you're reporting to someone that knows nothing of your magic year, the capital you built up would be mostly for naught, save for whatever money you made from point 1) above.

Given my own experiences working for giant corporations, I would never make job = life. Maybe where you work is different. Others suggested making (not job) = life and I'll cast my vote that way.
 
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Yeah I was gonna say that this is what I expect to be doing in three years FML.

But I wouldn't encourage it, life's too short, enjoy the newly minted single life and do the outrageous things that you've missed while being married. Blow off some steam, act like a college guy again (within reason). Life's just too short.

Eh lawyers like to bitch. I work a ton. I get told when I be working a ton. That said, I am compensated for it and I work nowhere near as much as first year residents. At least you aren't going into accounting- same hours less pay. I have work life balance, its just important to actually use the slow times to make up for the times you are absolutely crushed. Learned that the hard way. If you have nothing to do at 4 pm, leave. See your loved ones. No credit for not billing and it makes staying late way more bearable later.

Other people on the boards say they would hate being on call all weekend. That part sucks. I would hate being forced to sit at a desk just because it was business hours with nothing to do. When I don't have work I leave.
 
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There are a few questions you should answer.

1) What will "job = life" really get you at the end of 12 months? Most of my career has been at a company where heavy busting ass meant a raise of 5.5% versus 3.5% for cruising, a raise of 95% of target versus 85% of target and a few thousand dollars of company shares. So, you could bust your hump working an extra say, 2,000 hours to get an extra, say, $15,000 (all numbers are just examples). That's $7.50 an hour, about like working at McDonalds.

2) How do people really rise up the ladder? At the aforementioned company, who you have lunch with or have Thursday drinks with has a MUCH larger impact than job performance. Personally I started having more success (raises/bonuses/promotions) by paying attention to these other factors and worked less hours than when i was cranking out tons of hours and producing more.

3) How often does org structure change? You could bust your ass this year, impress the hell out of your boss but in 18 months if you have a reorg that sends your boss to manage QA and you're reporting to someone that knows nothing of your magic year, the capital you built up would be mostly for naught, save for whatever money you made from point 1) above.

Given my own experiences working for giant corporations, I would never make job = life. Maybe where you work is different. Others suggested making (not job) = life and I'll cast my vote that way.

Whoa, you have to increase your work week by more than 40 hours a week over everyone else to separate yourself?
 
Whoa, you have to increase your work week by more than 40 hours a week over everyone else to separate yourself?

I believe I said "(all numbers are just examples)" where I mentioned that extra 2,000 hours. Let me read it again to make sure.

Yep. I said it was just an example.
 
OK, there's a lot to respond to, here:
A) this thread has given me a lot more laughs than expected. Cheers!
B) I report directly to the CEO. I am well-regarded by the existing Veeps in my firm, and a drinking/running buddy with one. HE wants me to do something called a "Tough Mudder" with him and his buds this December. I quiver at the prospect ...
C) the political winds are shifting rapidly within my firm recently. There's opportunity to be had, if I play my cards right. If I don't, someone with more balls will take it.
D) how bad do I want it? Not sure. But my worry is, if I don't go for it now, it may prove one of those things I regret when I'm on my deathbed. Life only gives you so many chances, doesn't it? Sigh ...
 
I believe I said "(all numbers are just examples)" where I mentioned that extra 2,000 hours. Let me read it again to make sure.

Yep. I said it was just an example.

Well I am glad your response lives up to the play on words your handle is making.

I assumed you were basing it in some sort of illustrative purpose of a realistic experience/read that part and was shocked at your own experience and replied before I read the rest of the post.
 
I need to know what this is

My girlfriend had sent this to me a few months ago

http://whatshouldwecallme.tumblr.com/post/23871975090/when-my-boyfriend-first-heard-call-me-maybe


WHEN MY BOYFRIEND FIRST HEARD "CALL ME MAYBE"

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Jesus, I don't ever want to work for a large corporation after reading this thread. Fuck that noise.
 
I said I was going to do this and had quite a bit of conviction about it, too.

I lasted 4 days. Granted, I got a lot done... but I was a BITCH by that 5th day.
 
Pour all your energy into working out super hard and eating clean for
90 days instead.
 
I'm toying with the following Personal Challenge - throw myself into my job 100% for one year and see what dividends it reaps. Don't get me wrong, I do a good job now, but I definitely pursue "life balance." What if I didn't? If I went absolute balls-to-the-walls, I'd have a major impact on my company. Transform it. But there'd be a major hit to time spent on games, girls, sports, socializing. Basically, I'd be a tunnel-visioned beast. Does anyone else here wonder what would happen if you made your job the end-all-and-be-all of your life? Just for a while? No? Well, this IS the thread for random thoughts, right? :)

I want to do this. I work at a start up and give most of my time to it. If I was single, I would 100% do it.
 
I work for a 4000+ company and the folks who work the hardest rarely get ahead, more than adding a "Sr. to their title, i.e. Sr. Business Analyst. Plus, that becomes their rep and people then expect you to work that much.

Its those folks who get shit done, lead, take risks, make decisions when no one else does, etc. that get "ahead".
 
I've been a business analyst, and I've been an entrepreneur. If you're going to do it, don't do it as a BA. Start your own damn company, or at least do the independent consulting gig so you can get paid for all of the hours you plan to be working.
 
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