I haven't made a single Biblical reference in any of my posts. You are inferring an argument I haven't made. My argument has been strictly utilitarian. It is best for society and for the individual to wait for sex until the person has decided upon a lifelong mate.
It is not repressive or telling people what to do to evaluate what is best for the individual or society. I am not saying you shame people into monogamy. I am saying you promote it as the best alternative for the individual and for society. We don't do that. It is not an equal choice to be presented as such to a 15 year old. Choosing to live a sexually active lifestyle with numerous partners introduces massive risks that are unnecessary. The act of sex itself is more enjoyable when the person you giving yourself to is committed to you emotionally and physically for life.
It is the best scenario possible and we need to as a society come to grips with that and promote it. That is my POV. That doesn't mean I want to force me POV on everyone until they obey. I would like the facts to speak for themselves which they pretty much do.
Squash disease, squash single teenage parenting, increase economic ability to care for children by even in the case of a surprise baby having two parents to share the economic and physical burden, and increase the enjoyment and longevity of the act of sex by having a partner who not only knows your every move but is committed to you despite your faults.
I'll exit star right because I feel like I am repeating myself. I am not against sex education, handing out condoms, or any of that. I think we should. I am simply arguing for a new narrative in sex. The facts are pretty obvious, but we simply aren't rational when it comes to evaluate sex. We allow our basest instincts rule us and in my opinion we demean the joy, while at the same time cause ourselves massive pain due to massive negative consequences we willingly submit ourselves to. 88% of AIDS transmission occurs in a sexual act. We have hundreds of thousands of children born to teen mothers that have no means to care for the child.
We need to out band aids in the issue by issuing condoms and teaching about birth control with great vigor, but more importantly we need to address the root of the fruit. The cause for all this is a skewed view of sex. Until we address the root we will always deal with the consequences.