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Moral Monday

What a delightful off-road out of this argument into the point and place of beginning (the comfort of your false assumptions). Let's say I provided you with the answer to the unknowable question you've posed. Let's just say.

Then what? How does that fact, or not, change the fact that you wouldn't settle for the life you thrust on others? It doesn't, does it?

produce the numbers, don't be a phony. If you have based your socioeconomic principles upon this idea, then you must know exactly how many legitimately disabled and unable to work people there are who should receive some care, and how many are sitting back counting the free dough and sucking down beers and joints.

You must know (and it must be knowable), because you are a smart guy with a Wake education who uses this philosophy as the basis of every political argument on this board.
 
That's not how you treat a human being. That's how you treat a captive. You treat a human being with the empathy you'd expect and accept in return.

Now I need evidence that you'd settle for the life that the victims of the welfare state are living, in their fourth generation. But I won't be holding my breath for it, since by your own actions you show that you wouldn't settle for that life.

I don't understand the question. Would I settle for what, life on welfare? If I were a woman with three kids and my husband died, or fell off a ladder, or was laid off from the facotry and couldn't find work, or just plain left me? Of course I would, what other choice do I have? Start a painting business?
 
produce the numbers, don't be a phony. If you have based your socioeconomic principles upon this idea, then you must know exactly how many legitimately disabled and unable to work people there are who should receive some care, and how many are sitting back counting the free dough and sucking down beers and joints.

You must know (and it must be knowable), because you are a smart guy with a Wake education who uses this philosophy as the basis of every political argument on this board.

It's not a mystery: I'm asking YOU why YOUR plan isn't good enough for someone else? I can't speak for millions of other people, but you can speak for you. I'm asking you. So...answer. Please.
 
It's not a mystery: I'm asking YOU why YOUR plan isn't good enough for someone else? I can't speak for millions of other people, but you can speak for you. I'm asking you. So...answer. Please.

I will answer anything you ask, but I must be able to understand the question. I went to App State, not Wake. So ask me again real slow and I will answer as best I can. I do not understand what you are asking.
 
Ronald Reagan's dad used welfare, you know that right? So did Mitt Romney's. So they would have become more wealthy without it?
 
Gladly. I judge that they deserve better than they're current plight and prospects. Evidently that is not an opinion bathed in unanimity. Do you plan on continuing to lie to them with false hope and look down on them with your lowered expectations for who they are and what they deserve?

Yes they do deserve better than their current plight and prospects. I am not an austerity guy like you. I want the state to administer programs and spending that lifts them up - education and training and health care and public works projects and day care etc.

You are the one lying to them with false hope my man, don't deflect your shit on me. Your plan is to starve them into creating a painting business with a van like the mexicans do. Talk about false hope.

That post is fucking classic someone save that shit
 
Yes they do deserve better than their current plight and prospects. I am not an austerity guy like you. I want the state to administer programs and spending that lifts them up - education and training and health care and public works projects and day care etc.

You are the one lying to them with false hope my man, don't deflect your shit on me. Your plan is to starve them into creating a painting business with a van like the mexicans do. Talk about false hope.

That post is fucking classic someone save that shit

Does the evidence show that happens, sixty years in to the welfare state? Now that you've anointed yourself with the beauty of your intentions and decried mine, let's wade into the waters of the numbers and take a look around. 1/2 of all babies are born into single family homes. Half. That's insanity. You want to tell me 1/2 of all babies are conceived with the expectation that they'll be born into a stable household with two providing parents, but 50% of the time that well-intended, well-resourced plan jumps the record and gets derailed into a single-parent home during gestation? Since we both know that's not the case, it seems we'd have to at least allow for the possibility that a good portion of those children are conceived with the expectation that somebody other than the father would be a provider for that child. Enter, the State.

#1: Is that a good plan?
#2: Where does the expectation of third-party support come from?
#3: What were the single-parent numbers before the welfare state?
#4: Is that a good enough plan for your children?
#5: If not, shouldn't we do something other than subsidize that continued insanity?

eta: While I enjoy our weekly game of ulterior motive accusation air hockey, can you take a step back and see this from my perspective of viewing the problem at the macro level? I'm not trying to run you down, I get it, but I view this as a systemic problem with an aggravating non-remedy masquerading as a solution. Please tell me what I'm missing in the big picture. I don't think you're a bad guy, I think your solution is a short term fix for each microsituation. My problem is that the mosaic is an ugly, ugly picture. Tell me how your solution to the micro is a long term solution in the macro. I honestly need to know how it "lifts them up" when the problem keeps getting worse?
 
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Hold on, first we were talking about unemployed people who are too lazy to get an old van and paint stuff. Now suddenly, and without resolving the questions posed about how to deal with the unemployed, JHMD wants to talk about single mothers.

I see what you did there.

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Hold on, first we were talking about unemployed people who are too lazy to get an old van and paint stuff. Now suddenly, and without resolving the questions posed about how to deal with the unemployed, JHMD wants to talk about single mothers.

I see what you did there.

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They are symptoms of the same problem. Our system (read: your solution) is aggravating both problems, not solving either. Show me how giving just-enough-to-get-by in exchange for nothing in return is a long term solution to either problem.

eta: Also not to be missed is that your disingenuous characterization of my position is as intellectually insincere as it is self-serving. Much as you guys like to portray otherwise, I don't blame the victims of the broken system for choosing the least bad path set for them by a dreadful system. I blame the advocates for that system (which is dreadful for the victims, by quite politically useful for its advocates). I don't blame them, let me make this clear: until you can help me understand how this aggregation of short-term solutions amalgamates magically into a macrosolution, I blame you.
 
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Does the evidence show that happens, sixty years in to the welfare state? Now that you've anointed yourself with the beauty of your intentions and decried mine, let's wade into the waters of the numbers and take a look around. 1/2 of all babies are born into single family homes. Half. That's insanity. You want to tell me 1/2 of all babies are conceived with the expectation that they'll be born into a stable household with two providing parents, but 50% of the time that well-intended, well-resourced plan jumps the record and gets derailed into a single-parent home during gestation? Since we both know that's not the case, it seems we'd have to at least allow for the possibility that a good portion of those children are conceived with the expectation that somebody other than the father would be a provider for that child. Enter, the State.

#1: Is that a good plan?
#2: Where does the expectation of third-party support come from?
#3: What were the single-parent numbers before the welfare state?
#4: Is that a good enough plan for your children?
#5: If not, shouldn't we do something other than subsidize that continued insanity?

eta: While I enjoy our weekly game of ulterior motive accusation air hockey, can you take a step back and see this from my perspective of viewing the problem at the macro level? I'm not trying to run you down, I get it, but I view this as a systemic problem with an aggravating non-remedy masquerading as a solution. Please tell me what I'm missing in the big picture. I don't think you're a bad guy, I think your solution is a short term fix for each microsituation. My problem is that the mosaic is an ugly, ugly picture. Tell me how your solution to the micro is a long term solution in the macro. I honestly need to know how it "lifts them up" when the problem keeps getting worse?


jhmd, you are obsessed with single-parent families and the notion that the existence of finical aid is a motivator for women to have babies. Fine. it's your cause. But when I ask you for the raw numbers for how many Americans are doing this you say it can't be known, yet you drag out the statistics about how many babies are born into single-family homes with ease. How much of a burden this is on our society, and how it compares to other points in this country's history, depends on these numbers. Please produce them. It's the cornerstone of your socio-econo-political existence, you look a little foolish not knowing this. I think you are a good dude too, I want to see you do well with this.

#1 - On whose part, the receiver or giver of aid? If you mean the giver, I think it is good to feed babies and their mothers, so, yes.
#2 - The expectation of third-party support for a hungry baby comes from Judeo-Christian ethics, I suppose. As a civilized society, we are appalled by innocents suffering from preventable ailments such as malnutrition and disease.
#3 - I don't know, why don't you enlighten us.
#4 - I don't have children. If I did, and I was unable to provide for them, it would have to suffice. Like it did for Ronald Reagan and MItt Romney when they were children.
#5 - I would love for all people to have a job and for their children to be cared for, but I am not in favor of cutting aid to women and children. If the church or private organizations or wealthy philanthropists want to step in and devise a private plan to do the job then I welcome them, but they do not that I can tell, so the best we can do is provide for them and push policies that improve upon this model as best we can. We can also promote policies that ease the jarring lows inherent in the capitalist cycle which impact the poor much more than they middle and upper class. We can also agree to provide basic healthcare - including preventative care - to all Americans. This will help reduce the effect illness/injury has on the household finances and the adults ability to work - which impact the poor to a greater degree than the middle or upper class, and often devastate their savings etc.

eta: In the "good ole days" when women became pregnant out of wedlock, please tell us what happened to those women and those babies. Also, explain to us what happened to babies/people born with mental disabilities and physical disabilities. I know, but I want to hear your version of the good ole days when girls were girls and men were men.....
 
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jhmd, you are obsessed with single-parent families and the notion that the existence of finical aid is a motivator for women to have babies. Fine. it's your cause. But when I ask you for the raw numbers for how many Americans are doing this you say it can't be known, yet you drag out the statistics about how many babies are born into single-family homes with ease. How much of a burden this is on our society, and how it compares to other points in this country's history, depends on these numbers. Please produce them. It's the cornerstone of your socio-econo-political existence, you look a little foolish not knowing this. I think you are a good dude too, I want to see you do well with this.

#1 - On whose part, the receiver or giver of aid? If you mean the giver, I think it is good to feed babies and their mothers, so, yes.
#2 - The expectation of third-party support for a hungry baby comes from Judeo-Christian ethics, I suppose. As a civilized society, we are appalled by innocents suffering from preventable ailments such as malnutrition and disease.
#3 - I don't know, why don't you enlighten us.
#4 - I don't have children. If I did, and I was unable to provide for them, it would have to suffice. Like it did for Ronald Reagan and MItt Romney when they were children.
#5 - I would love for all people to have a job and for their children to be cared for, but I am not in favor of cutting aid to women and children. If the church or private organizations or wealthy philanthropists want to step in and devise a private plan to do the job then I welcome them, but they do not that I can tell, so the best we can do is provide for them and push policies that improve upon this model as best we can. We can also promote policies that ease the jarring lows inherent in the capitalist cycle which impact the poor much more than they middle and upper class. We can also agree to provide basic healthcare - including preventative care - to all Americans. This will help reduce the effect illness/injury has on the household finances and the adults ability to work - which impact the poor to a greater degree than the middle or upper class, and often devastate their savings etc.

We're having a forest:trees disconnect. Why is the problem worse than it's ever been? What example are we teaching these kids born into dependency by design?
 
We had this discussion a month ago. I provided quite detailed ideas and asked you to respond to them. You ran from them like a cockroach from light or a Congressman from campaign contribution transparency. Your ideas boiled down to taking away driver's licenses from poor people.

http://www.ogboards.com/forums/showthread.php/17239-Thanks-Obama/page11

Feel free to go back and read over that thread and your complete lack of response. Your posts on this thread are just retreads from April.
 
We're having a forest:trees disconnect. Why is the problem worse than it's ever been? What example are we teaching these kids born into dependency by design?

I don't know that it is worse than it has ever been. You won't give me the data.
 
I don't know that it is worse than it has ever been. You won't give me the data.

This horse may collapse and die from either dehydration snout-down into the lake. Half of all children are born into single parent homes. Half: an all-time high. Let's start with that number. Please.
 
This horse may collapse and die from either dehydration snout-down into the lake. Half of all children are born into single parent homes. Half: an all-time high. Let's start with that number. Please.

OK, fine. Let me guess, as soon as these whores found out about free money they started spreading their legs, right?
 
OK, fine. Let me guess, as soon as these whores found out about free money they started spreading their legs, right?

Impressive hang-time on that one. Sam Swank would be proud.

That is your whole point, right jhmd? If not tell us what your point is. Or are you going to punt on this thread too?

By the way still waiting on your responses to my posts in that other thread. It's only been 4 months though, so feel free to take another quarter or so to think about it.
 
well shit man, you are basically saying that before there was a welfare state, women resisted having babies until they could find a man to support them. Everything was cool, no welfare state was needed. This is bullshit. The welfare state was put in place because women were having babies or being left with babies to raise alone.

You need for this essential piece of your theory to be true, but it isn't completely. A lot of social changes happened post WWII that had nothing to do with women gaming the system to get free money. They became more educated, they more politically involved, they entered the workforce, and they experienced a sexual revolution, they began to have a voice after being held down by men for centuries. Some realized they could have a baby without a husband and be fine. You need to produce some numbers, chief, about how many are gaming the system. How many were even reported back then? When their daddies sent them off to live with their "aunt" for nine months and then mysteriously the family was taking care of their "niece" when she returned.

gimme some numbers baby
 
In addition to the items Wake mentioned, in recent years you have the decline and near extinction of jobs for low-skill men and the war on drugs making a lot of men from poor and especially black neighborhoods unemployable due to a drug conviction. Women do not want to commit themselves to these men for life.
 
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