Ask them. But what difference does it make really? The mods decided to suspend him for three days. Are your knickers really in a big twist about it? The world kept spinning. He'll be back.
Isn't the larger issue that telling anyone to off themselves is inappropriate. Sure I didn't give a crap. But someone else might if it were directed at them - one of two very good points made by Ph.
Seems like RJ acknowledged it crossed a line - all be it not to me. But at least he seems to get that point. And I'm past it.
You really are a piece of work. I apologized multiple times.