so here's some old-fashioned drama for your monday morning:
so last night i caught up with my friend "mary" who told me about these two guys she's been hooking up with lately. One of them is named "charlie". she went on to say that she met Charlie at kickball and that he's bald and 34. Just so happens that my coworker is also dating a guy named Charlie who plays kickball and is bald and around 34. I met Charlie when he accompanied coworker to a wedding last weekend. Charlie and coworker have been casually dating since last fall, but apparently it's getting a little bit more serious lately according to coworker. After hearing the details on Mary's Charlie, I couldn't ignore the similarities and asked for a picture: YEP. same Charlie that coworker is also seeing.
So the question here is: do i stay out of it (none of my business) and not say anything to coworker, or do i tell coworker that the guy she's been seeing since last fall is hooking up with someone else? Mary knew that Charlie had what he described as an "it's complicated" situation and doesn't care, but I think coworker would definitely care (however, I'm not sure... maybe it's even more casual that I thought? not my relationship.). WHAT TO DO?!