I've gotten rid of all the car seats. I even got rid of the booster seat for my eight year old. I sometimes let a kid ride in the front seat when their mom isn't around.
el chupe gets the kids
Heavy Saturday morning question:
If you guys have done wills, how did you decide who gets your kids? Wife and I are inexcusably delinquent in preparing wills, but it's mainly due to the fact we struggle to decide who gets our kids. Wife has 2 younger brothers, I have 1 younger sister, none of them are married, good possibility none will have kids. Her brothers also don't really have careers or anything, so no way we give them our kids. My sister is more stable and loves our kids, but doesn't plan to have kids herself.
My parents would be most likely to take them I think, they spend the most time with them, adore my kids, and my kids adore them, but they're older and retired. Dad is not in the greatest health. Wife's parents are younger and in better health, but live a few hours away and are generally just less engaged with our kids. Also wonder whether giving kids to either set of grandparents sets up for weirdness or jealousy between the 2 sets (may be overthinking this part, but do think my parents would be bummed if they knew we were giving our kids to Wife's parents).
I've got a cousin who is married, has an adopted kid, and is awesome, husband is awesome, nicest people in the world. But they live in Maryland.
So, no great options and, again, I think that's the primary reason we don't already have wills in place. Figured I'd turn to you guys to see how you handled.
Okay now that we have cleared up what to do when we all simultaneously die I just wanted to say it's fucking gorgeous outside and I'm stuck inside working with rambo on potty training which is one of dantes circles of hell.
It's deuce o'clock. Just gotta wait him out.
It's deuce o'clock. Just gotta wait him out.
Ugh a will. Something we've been meaning to do as well but yeah how the heck do you choose? I think it would be my parents for now. His are divorced and neither really in a life place for a kid I don't think. My mom will retire soon and my parents are p young. Otherwise it would be one of HTTDs sister. One is married and has a kid our son's age so that makes sense.
Are you just having a stare down with him on the toilet? How old is Rambo now? Like, how much longer do I have until I have to deal with this shit (literally). Daycare can't just handle it?
He's almost 3. Our daycare works with him but you gotta reinforce at home.