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women who cheated?

tsywake said:
Was she cheating with Bruce Willis?
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Yea right. If my mom was cheating with Willis, I'd probably know a bunch of awesome stories from the set of The Whole Ten Yards right now. It was just some old dude with a limp that ran the register at the Sunoco, and the only thing I got out of it was free bags of ice.
 
Unpredeactable said:
For the guys who've been cheated on, is it worse if it's purely physical, or purely emotional? I would think emotional cheating would be worse.

ETA: unless you get VD
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ultimately I think I've felt worse about it than I would have a physical thing. IMO, physical can be much more of a 'mistake' (ie: drank a little too much, made a bad decision). Emotional is an active choice of letting your mind be more interested in/desiring of another person. To feel that way while still being with another person... it's not cool. Again, I'm not proud.
 
ChrisPaul3 said:
Yea right. If my mom was cheating with Willis, I'd probably know a bunch of awesome stories from the set of The Whole Ten Yards right now. It was just some old dude with a limp that ran the register at the Sunoco, and the only thing I got out of it was free bags of ice.
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Perhaps his limp was due to an physical oddity that she found appealing.
 
Ladies always looking for that BBD. Bigger, better deal. Bigger, better dick.
 
ChicdeaC said:
I've cheated. I was in the wrong. I was young and dumb and kind of a bitch. Lots of excuses but no real reasons :noidea:
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Are you talking about posting on these boards?
 
deacvision7 said:
The hell is "emotional cheating"?
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attaching oneself to another person emotionally. If intimacy can be broken up into physical, emotional, and commitment, it's that middle section. If a woman (or man) is turning to another man to fulfill her need for emotional intimacy - for support, security, etc. - if the other man is the one she really relies and depends on to be there for her - she'll form a real attachment that undercuts whatever relationship she may happen to be in.
 
IamThunderbolt said:
attaching oneself to another person emotionally. If intimacy can be broken up into physical, emotional, and commitment, it's that middle section. If a woman (or man) is turning to another man to fulfill her need for emotional intimacy - for support, security, etc. - if the other man is the one she really relies and depends on to be there for her - she'll form a real attachment that undercuts whatever relationship she may happen to be in.
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Gotcha. Cheers.
 
I've never cheated on anyone. But, I was the "other woman" at one point. The guy had been dating his girlfriend for a few months, and we hooked up a couple of times. He then broke up with her and we started dating. We got married last year. We are still friends with his ex.
 
Unpredeactable said:
For the guys who've been cheated on, is it worse if it's purely physical, or purely emotional? I would think emotional cheating would be worse.

ETA: unless you get VD
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Physical would be much much worse. If I girl I was dating made an emotional connection with someone else, broke up with me, and then started dating him, that seems how it should be.

If a girl was getting taken to poundtown and it was so good that she broke up with me and continued on the poundtown train, that would be infinitely worse.

Its quite likely a girl I dated while we went to different schools was fooling around before we broke up, I know she didn't take long to start but I couldn't really blame her since it was her freshman year in school, who wants to be tied down long distance in that situation? It nontheless sucked.
 
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palmab03 said:
Physical would be much much worse. If I girl I was dating made an emotional connection with someone else, broke up with me, and then started dating him, that seems how it should be.

If a girl was getting taken to poundtown and it was so good that she broke up with me and continued on the poundtown train, that would be infinitely worse.
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I think most guys agree with you (I do). Also think most girls are the opposite and feel more hurt by the emotional cheating.
 
palmab03 said:
If a girl was getting taken to poundtown and it was so good that she broke up with me and continued on the poundtown train, that would be infinitely worse.
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Because it's worse to be bad in bed that to have a bad personality?
 
WRS said:
I think most guys agree with you (I do). Also think most girls are the opposite and feel more hurt by the emotional cheating.
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I think studies have shown this and it makes sense evolutionarily- emotional cheating is related to raising and support of a family and the young, physical cheating is about procreating.
 
WRS said:
I think most guys agree with you (I do). Also think most girls are the opposite and feel more hurt by the emotional cheating.
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Right, but "I didn't really care about her" probably isn't going to get a guy out of trouble for physical cheating.
 
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