damn. by the time I have kids it's going to be $20/hr. WTF.
What is this "if she refuses" nonsense? Of course she will refuse, and of course you will make her take the money. This song and dance has been going on as long as money has been around.
damn. by the time I have kids it's going to be $20/hr. WTF.
You'd better get pregnant tonight.
Right, but just like how the girl must make the effort at dinner to pay, you've got to make the offer. It's all about making the effort.
Do women do that in DC? Any woman I've explained that to looked at me like I told them grass was purple and the sky is pink.
Right, but just like how the girl must make the effort at dinner to pay, you've got to make the offer. It's all about making the effort.
Well yeah, but you don't acquiesce and let the girl pay for dinner, just like you don't acquiesce and let the sitter go without some money in her pocket.
Truth is I rarely take girls out to dinner unless we've already gone on a couple dates. However, the whole "going for the reach" still exists beyond the dinner check.
Won't exactly tell you if the girl is a keeper, but can definitely tell you if she's not.
Correct, but you do then find a compromise. With the girl, you allow her to then pay for first drinks at the next bar. Or the cab ride home to your place. Just as you compromise and tell the babysitter you're at least paying for you two to grab dinner one night.
Be an adult, put $50 in an envelope and hand it to her casually without comment. None of this "offer to pay" bullshit.