And you are part of the problem. People like me, who are sympathetic to gay issues but not buying into thinking every gay joke or disagreement is a big deal, are exactly the kind of people that need to be converted to "the cause" or whatever we want to call it. Instead, we get lambasted as stupid or plunked with the most misused misnomer of all time (homophobe) as attempts to turn us into pariahs are made. That is far more offensive to me than any stance on any side of the issue. You aren't going to win a lot of supporters being assholes to and shouting down the people who disagree with you.
I'm under the age of 45 and not a religious zealot at all. While how I feel the issue compares to black civil rights or other civil rights issues is most certainly subjective, it isn't irrelevant. The comparison is being made by people who have taken up the cause. It can't suddenly become irrelevant because my subjective view of the comparison differs from their subjective view. My initial reaction was founded in my belief that I subsequently articulated, or "intellectualized" as you put it. It doesn't mean I'm making shit up or backtracking. It means I took the time to explain why I feel the way I do, which is more than I got from anybody else on this thread and, frankly, more than you're going to get from 90% of the people who feel the way I do.
Anyway, this thread has run its course. Booradley's post was probably the best way to end it.