This is something I've kept for years and T suggested I share it:
From:tsywake
Subject:RE: Need your opinion
Sent:4/15/2008*2:43*PM*EDT
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You're welcome.* I could sense a little trepedation in your original email, but could tell it was something you really wanted to say.* Had I got the feeling you really didnt want it to be known, I'd have probably tried to talk you out of it.* I've actually been pretty impressed with the vast majority of the posters.* They may just be blowing smoke since they're on a message board, but to the majority of them, they seem like they could care less.* I'm sure there are others, so maybe you're blazing a path for them to follow?
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From: DieHardDeacon
Sent: 4/15/2008
BTW, thanks for giving me the confidence to do it.*
From: tsywake
Sent: 4/15/2008
I'm sure.* I cant relate to what you're going through, but I really dont think it'll be much of an issue.* Its not like you're going to act any differently now, and everybody loved being around you before.* I think for some it was a shock, but it really shouldnt matter.* Being gay is much more mainstream now, and I think people are much more comfortable with the idea now.* Had you revealed it, say back in the 90's, you'd have probably elicited a different reaction.
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From: DieHardDeacon
Sent: 4/15/2008
Still a little nervous...I would hate to feel allienated at tailgates and basketball etc...* I've never made a secret about it but don't want it to be a reason why people that I have interacted with in the past to now act differently.* Overall, I dont think that would happen but its always something on my mind.
From: tsywake
Sent: 4/15/2008
So after revealing that on the boards, how do you feel?*
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From: DieHardDeacon
Sent: 4/15/2008
Hey Travis,
I need your opinion on something.* I want to post this on the WF accepting a gay player thread but am suprisingly nervous about it.* Do you think its ok to post?
It would be a topic of discussion for a while just because of its rarity for an openly gay athlete in college but would disappear as other, more interesting topics come up.* I'm sure we would hear the chants and jabs from other schools*but IMHO, you would see the WF family be supportive and even protective of one of our own.* Almost like when you were a kid - it was ok to fight among your friends but let no outsider come in and cause a problem.* Today, it is a vastly different world from just 15 years ago when I came out.* People in general are much more knowledgeable than they were in the 80s and early 90s.* I still have hesitations about being open about my sexuality but all those that know me, know that I do not hide it either.* Those in the WF community that I know, went to school with, and/or associate with have been very good to me and it has never been an issue.* To them and to me, I’m just another Deac!