Downhill snow skiing (age 16) and freestyle kayaking (age 14), but obviously (fortunately?) not team sports. Our skier is very good recreationally but started late and not in a pipeline as a serious competitor. (Docs said she might never walk so we are obviously thrilled with her amazing accomplishments.) Our kayaker is objectively good and competitive nationally - that sport involves practice a couple times per week, intensive training most of the Summer, a small number of events throughout the year and several long weekends to other states. But most of our weekends are still ours.