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...less laughter from me, but more of a "wtf, really?"
Stop and go traffic in a hilly place is the only time i've felt unnerved... and I would probably avoid somewhere like that if I were to get into a manual car right now, until I've had a couple weeks to get it back to second nature. It's unfortunate your wife can't learn.
I think the only reason I was able to learn so quickly was because I always played 'need for speed underground 2' on 'manual' so I understood shifting, and playing drums gave the coordination to pick up multiple movements from all limbs at the same time.