MysteryMen
Scott "Rufio" Feather
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You realize what you are doing, right? This is like saying that prohibitions on same sex marriage are okay because no one is born wanting to marry a person of their same sex. That's obviously true, but if, sexuality is not chosen, it is also quite beside the point. The issue is the person's sexuality, not their choice to get married.
The logical consequences of your position, then, is that polyamory is chosen. Is that your view?
People are born with the biological wiring to be attracted to people of the same sex, with the logical conclusion that one day it's likely that they will want to marry them. Restricting the ability to get married to one's desired partner to only those who biologically are attracted to those of the opposite sex is discriminating based upon an inherent biological characteristic over which the person has no control.
The polyamory situation is completely different because it's not biological. These people don't have a biological wiring that makes them only want to marry multiple people. Polyamory is not somebody's sexuality - it is a choice about the type of relationships you would like to have in your life. Just like two straight men, one who choses to get married and the other who does not, do not have different sexual identities.
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