I am one of the people who has been lurking on this thread, mostly bc I wasn't sure I had any useful info.
This alleged affair- it was with another faculty member or a coed? I know we have heard both. I find it so hard to believe that it was a coed. It just doesn't seem like something he would do. I will say that Wake has fired a coach for things like this before. I was always shocked that they got rid of Brian Fleischman because he was dating Janet Bergman, who had already graduated, but who he used to coach. They're married now, but it seemed ridiculous because he was so successful and she was no longer a student.
On the other hand, I think the AD goes out of its way to protect certain student athletes, so I could see them covering up the band scandal issue. It was not too long ago some of our best fball players had a similar problem and I was shocked at how "under the radar" it stayed. While I believe the girl was a liar in that incident, it is amazing how well the AD controls negative information. I also know there was a football player who was caught with coke a number of times when I was in school and while the other student he was with was thrown out, he was kept on until he got in trouble for hard core drugs a third time. Same goes for the many times some of our star fball players got caught with weed. Everything down to T Williams breaking his foot playing basketball and not "falling out of bed" has been controlled.
It is scary how many examples I can think of. So glad they are no longer controlling the only boards as well.