The dozens or hundreds of PMs and reps hitting on me are OK.
The year of fapping to me is OK.
Also in the interim since it happened, Slim and I have even made peace. He promised to take me out for ice cream before taking me home on the Bang Bus (is that local or express service? doesn't matter, I'll be sure to thank the driver either way). After fulfilling phan's request for a butt shot privately, I have received many negs without retaliating to any of the usual suspects.
I have proven for that week that I have changed, I have not posted any new pictures. To do this now, without any warning, after an apology and proof it won't happen is as wrong as my actions and the actions of the mod who put all of this into motion.
Of that person is not going to be held responsible.