DeacDaddy
Hoping Against Hope
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Agreed. I like Manning a lot just wish he would figure this thing out. I am still in the "give Manning some time" camp. For me the season is next year. If he can't get us to the tournament with a team full of upperclassmen, then I'm done. Until then I will support Manning and the program. If this team is sitting at home next March or playing in the NIT, find me a new coach please. I'm tired of the Wake jabs from Duke and Carolina fans, I'm tired of Wake being a program that folks like to make fun of, don't support, and write off as an "easy win." If this team doesn't do anything special this year it's going to be 7 years without any kind of postseason........7 fucking years. It's fucking depressing and it's depressing because I know this program is a shit ton better than this.
Seven years.......Seven fucking years. I am not asking to win the National Title or even a Final Four right now. But please for the love of God give my son (who is 12 and a die hard fan) and I a reason to sit in front of the t.v. on selection Sunday and find out where the Deacs are playing. We are dying for this basketball program to be good again. I have to show him clips from 2010 and before to show him Wake is a very capable program and show him what the Joel looked like when the program was good and it had support from students and fans. I believe in this program and think it's potential is very high regardless of what people here or other places think. I am encouraged by the commitment to upgrade the athletic facilities and the donations coming in are awesome. I also think Manning has improved but I still have question marks.
If all these other schools can figure it out and do it then why can't Wake. Is it academics? Then why is Duke so successful????? Stanford in football......????? Look at other programs that compete and get recruits. Look at Miami basketball???? Virginia basketball??? Baylor basketball (that one still perplexes me how they have come on the scene). For me it's the coach. Am I wrong? If all this money is being spent to upgrade our facilities then what will be the excuse for Wake basketball after that? Wake is a small school? Academics? The administration? Again I like Manning a lot but if he doesn't pan out please for the love of God find Wake Forest a damn basketball coach. This whole program needs some balls and needs to start swinging it's dick around or step down and go play with High Point and Winthrop. Rant over. Go Deacs.
#Wake is better than this
#I believe in this program
This is what it comes down to for me. WFU is important not just for the memories I made there and the path on which it set me, but also for the new joys I've had introducing my kids to this experience. (Probably a mistake, right?) Hence my board name. I am emotionally invested because this matters to me in my relationship with my kids. I hate having to tell them to "get used to losses like these"; they don't want to hear that. They want to root for a winner, or at least a team with some passion. Credit to them, they are die-hard Deacs and haven't yet gotten embittered. But I won't be able to blame them if we do, if our current trajectory doesn't change. 7 years is a lot to a child...
Grateful we have Clawson, as I feel our football program will be enjoyable to root for even knowing our expected losses. But basketball is our crown jewel, and either we aren't even a player on the natonal stage, or we tease like we are and crush hopes. Those of my children included.
If ever I get too emotional or stubborn when interacting with some of the Die-hard Danny Defenders, this is why. I apologize. I want to savor these years with my children, and honestly feel sometimes that certain memories are taken away from us because of our sometimes ridiculously predictable failures.
I realize it seems I am putting too many eggs into this basket. Our family happiness does not depend on the Deacs, as yes, we have a life and identity outside of Wake sports. For sanity's sake. But I think this is the case particularly for many fathers and their children. We have a deep love for something that is almost inexplicable, and we want to share it with our progeny. But when that object of affection is WFU basketball, it almost makes me wonder if it would be better not to be invested at all. To make that determination would be a loss. But we're losing either way. Because the true, bond-forming, winning moments have been altogether too few and far between.