Wake fans want to view their school on a level higher than App, Central Michigan, and Delaware but not on a level lower than other power conference schools. From that perspective, it's logically consistent for Wake fans to rationalize the transfers in but not out.
Also, Wake absolutely has not lost players as important as this to the portal in previous years, so your condescending post doesn't really hit the way you intend. Wake is losing 3 starters to the portal/NBA, which has not happened before and is concerning.