No, it's more like if you got herpes from sleeping around in your past life, and then telling your girlfriend that because you're honest and want her to have all the information necessary.
And I'm betting I know more about treatment of Spinal Cord Injuries than you do.
1) no, it's not like that. in general you don't tell your girlfriend how many other girls you have slept with. if you have a diagnosed, uncured venereal disease, then it's no longer a general thing or a matter of SOP or something that happened in the past, the girl actually needs to know (about the venereal disease not how many women you've had). The distinction between specific need to know and general questions to satisfy due diligence and liability criteria is plain to me.
past illicit drug use is going to have no bearing on how the opiate interacts with his system in this case, which is why it's not the important medical information you claim. being forward is only going to hurt his cause, as we've already seen. current or future intended drug use the Dr. needs to know about theoretically (theoretically your dr. needs to know if you're taking fish oil, or any other dietary supplement if that tells you anything about exactly what is need to know or not), but in practice it's just going to hurt him - even if he takes downers unprescribed we're talking ab at most a 17.5mg increase in oxy (oral) to start off...that won't make any tangible difference in respiratory OD...if he takes enough downers to die on a 2.5mg perc he was gonna die anyway on a 20mg oxy almost certainly. 17.5 vs. 2.5 of oral oxy is a lot for pain, very little in terms of abuse.
if he's got a family doc he's known for years and he really has a concern over an illicit drug interaction he could ask that dr. (not the same as the prescribing dr.) verbally, in person, in private, but frankly we're talking about ridiculously small chances of medical complications as a result of increasing his oxycodone dose...even smaller with a bit of research.
2) the fact that you know more about spinal cord injuries than me is true, i know nothing, never said i did, and is not relevant to the discussion. that said, why bitch about him getting addicted on your dime since you're aware he's probably got 5-15 years to live.
I don't see people saying that he deserves a life of pain. Just that they don't want him to get hooked on narcotics while on government assistance.
And I also see people saying that he should check out ALL options for pain control, not just prescription drugs
some of the "advice" on this thread would likely lead to a life of pain. a lot more of the "advice" is way ill informed, and filled with implicit preconceptions/prejudices/judgements. whether he uses the alternative suggestions in this thread or not, he's going to be on opiates no matter how you look at it.
i have a smoker friend who disclosed his habit to his Dr. and now he can't even be on the kidney waiting list until a certain period of being clean from marijuana. if he hadn't disclosed that, he wouldn't be the dead man walking that he currently is. if in this example, if glass's friend wants to go out of his way to volunteer, or even just be honest if asked, about past illicit drug use, don't be surprised if he gets screwed at the end of the day. not all questions can or should be answered honestly from the PoV of the answerer, it's just a fact.