But with family members in law enforcement, it gets kind of ridiculous sometimes the extent to which people will go to disrespect or disobey someone of the law just to be spiteful dicks.
Same here, so I hear a lot of stories about how rude people can be to the the police. Were the protesters (at least some of them) acting like little pricks? Yes, without a doubt. Did they deserve what they got? You could argue yes as well. Should the cops have pepper sprayed them? No.
I am reminded of a quote from Archbishop Rowan Williams after the 9/11 attacks. He wrote "the manner in which we respond will dictate how the rest of the conversation will follow." Blame falls to both protestors and police officials for escalating. Cops abused their power and violently attacked unarmed and non-violent protestors on their knees. The protestors resisted arrest, even though they welcomed it with their actions.
I'm not a historian of MLK's (really the model for non-violent protest) life, but I don't recall him ever resisting arrest. He felt the need to stand up and did so, knowing full well it would get him arrested. And when they came to lead him to jail, he went and was willing to pay the price for his actions. And that action, instead of resisting arrest, amplified the volume of his actions.
Sad situation all around because the conversation has shifted from the focus of the responsibility of living in a community (99% vs 1%) to the right of assembly and skirmishes between the movement and authorities. Though, this is part of the movement's problem. I get that they don't want a leader and don't want to have a clearly spelled out message, but without one, there is no message to get, other than "hey, we're here, we stand for lots of stuff, and don't kick us out of the park."
/rant