Sorry, if you are going to a church where someone is packing and it makes you feel more "comfortable," that is living in fear. Maybe fear is a strong word. You're living in insecurity. Church is a place for reverence, peace, and holiness. Guns don't jive with that. This reminds me of the Kernersville preacher who incessantly talks about having his "gun at the pulpit." Makes me want to puke. I'm not saying you're like this preacher, Wrangor, but the rhetoric/logic is completely unnecessary and drives people away (except for white people) from the church. No one needs a gun in church. No one. And I go to church in urban Durham. Having a gun in church just fuels the "us vs. them" fire. Us vs. them = gun toters vs. anyone remotely opposed. Completely distracts from the Gospel's message of love.
Edit: and I own guns. Love to shoot skeet and hunt quail, turkey, and pheasant