I think part of the issue is that we have pilots who can line up multiple planes with precision to refuel in the air. They can snag the landing cable on a carrier and come to a stop in a few hundred feet. Mav and Goose can fly upside down on top of a Mig while giving them the finger.
But during the entire course of this thing coasting across the continent without propulsion, we couldn't get one plane with a hook to snag it, pop the balloon, and bring it down to the ground? Instead we needed to let it run its course, blow it up, and comb the ocean for debris instead of just towing it out of the sky in one piece and finding out everything we wanted to know about it. There was no reason to let it work its way across the country as another sign of Biden's ineptitude.