That was me.
I'm one of those folks in the middle who's daughter does not qualify for financial aid (I ran our numbers through Wake's "calculator") but we live a low debt, modest life (net worth would not raise eyebrows, two professional incomes, 2,000 square foot house in a nice neighborhood, late model non-luxury cars, no second home, play public golf courses, kids in good public schools, Episcopal 40 something white folks wearing business casual every day, you get the idea. We're fucking basic.)
I'm not going to get into the loan arithmetic other than to say I think it's skewed because a lot of families pay sticker. Our town sends a fair amount of kids to Wake, and of those we know three families well who currently have kids enrolled. All three pay sticker. One is taking out a HELOC so their kid is not in debt.
Two kids live on campus, one lives off, all are in greek life, have cars at school, take spring break and other road trips, etc. All the kids work but only during the summer so it doesn't help much. The parents uniformly scoff at the cost of attendance posted on the Wake website and have said, in one way or another, that its going to take $400K to get their kid an undergrad degree. So it's not just coming from my jaded imagination.
Sure, I don't doubt that at all. I only know two kids currently at Wake, both from families similar to what you describe. One pays $0 in tuition (ROTC) and the other pays $7,000 per year (faculty tuition benefit) - I have not asked, but I assume neither family is taking out loans. As I just posted, I think the financial situations are truly all over the place.
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