awakeandready
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This story raises an interesting question. When is it appropriate not to ask for the father's permission? If the two arent close? If that parent are divorced?
When the bride doesn't have a good relationship with her dad and doesn't expect him to be active involved in her life going forward.
I don't think there is a hard and fast rule. My grandparents didn't divorce until my mom was grown, but my dad asked my grandmother instead of my grandfather. He didn't meet my grandfather until their wedding.
I think the best way to know is just to ask your girlfriend, what does she want as far as that is concerned.
I agree with the bolded and don't think PhDeacs is always the case. My dad and I have a good relationship, he's very involved in my life, and my parents paid for the wedding. It just wasn't really a tradition that anyone in my family feels strongly about. Actually, HTTD is probably the one that felt most inclined to do it but I told him not to.