If you're going to drop that much cash, why don't you try to sneak into Gary Danko and be done with it?
You could also do Acquerello, Benu, Kiss, La Folie, Quince, Spruce? All those places are way too rich for my blood.
Plaj is supposedly pretty cool, but I'm not sure Scandanavian is for a celebration. State Bird might be too much of a hassle.
I really like Dosa, and the one on Fillmore is supposedly more upscale than the one in the Mission I normally go to. I've had good experiences at Cotogna, too. Those two places are probably better values.