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What is unfair about that?
One of my kids is in gifted program and spends at least half of every day in accelerated classes with much better teachers. It's actually borderline unfair.
What is unfair about that?
What is unfair about that?
Every kid would benefit from smaller class sizes and more individualized teacher attention. Why should we give that only to a few? Especially when referrals to those programs have shown racial bias?
This is a strange take. You don't think anyone should benefit from AA because you and your family are privileged?
Jesus. Ph, I feel bad and want to apologize to you on behalf of this place. What a tremendously shitty thing for that guy to say.
I think it is good for someone like me to witness it though, because I've never and probably will never experience anything like that, mean while it's happened more than once for Ph on these boards (taking it to you kid's future seems worse). That is a microcosm example of why we need more serous teaching about America's racial past and present than we do, not less.
I've had my share of arguments with Ph, but to stay civil and continue trying to discuss these topics with that center dude despite his slow boil to absolute moral bankruptcy was pretty impressive. Well done, good work LK, incredible how much anger these phantom problems can gin up in these guys.
I've had my share of arguments with Ph, but to stay civil and continue trying to discuss these topics with that center dude despite his slow boil to absolute moral bankruptcy was pretty impressive. Well done, good work LK, incredible how much anger these phantom problems can gin up in these guys.
Good post from white guy from a forum I’m in:
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So I've read, listened, learned (all at the expertise of Black people) and thought a ton about Racism over the past several years and here is my take on the Critical Race Theory panic.
It's White Fragility, plain and simple.
White (and other non-Black) people are extremely afraid of being called out or admitting that they are racist.
All of the current freakout is coming from PARENTS not the students (except for some douchey, racist students who also are contributing). Most kids don't have a problem understanding fairness, respect and dignity and are totally cool with treating their peers from marginalized groups well. Just look at how kids treat LGBTQ peers compared to when we were kids. We've come a long way.
The problem is that many parents don't want their kids getting TOO tolerant because then inevitably the kids will 1.) question or abandon their tribe (Whiteness, Xtian Conservatism, The GOP) and 2.) start noticing and calling out their parents isms/phobias.
A child that gets too, for lack of a better term "woke" will end up looking at their parents and family differently. They will start questioning their parents' behavior now and in the past. They will start having to admit that maybe Grandpa did so well running his own business because he was able to get a loan that was unavailable to Black People at the time. They will have to admit that maybe Dad got into college, in part because he didn't have to compete with all the women who weren't even allowed to apply.
Kids will have to start admitting that these barriers that privileged their family were very real, and most likely their family voted for politicians who specifically promised to maintain those policies of segregation. Kids will have to start asking difficult questions like: so Dad, where were YOU during the March on Washington? Did you support MLK at the time? Where was Great-Grandpa when lynchings were taking place in our city? Etc.
This is one of the reasons we created and promoted Lost Cause mythology to allow or ancestors who chose to commit treason in defense of Slavery to still be heroes fighting for some better purpose. That's why parents object to their kids going to Liberal Colleges or even diverse public schools. They are afraid they will learn the truth about our history and start connecting some uncomfortable dots.
Likewise, parents are probably petrified of having their kid tell them: Hey, what you just said is racist/homophobic/Transphobic etc.
In short, White Parents (not all but most) want to be able to continue being casually __ist/__phobic and supporting bigots without losing any face with their kids or risking their kids deciding to become Democrats and aligning with THOSE people. It's all about white feelings of vanity and tribalism.
As Heather McGhee's "The Sum of Us: How Racism Hurts Everyone & How We Can All Prosper Together" notes, keeping White voters from joining forces with Black/Brown ones, is one of the most quintessential tactics for protecting White Supremacy (and Patriarchy too) going all the way back to Slavery, and has been the go-to play forever.
How do we best fight the bullshit CRT Panic that appeals to so many White voters? Beats me. But it's always good to understand what we are fighting.
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