Thought you would like Townie. Calvinist here...the basic premise is that God is in control, that he doesn't have to save anyone, but that he chooses to save some, not because of their own merit, but for His own reasons. Pretty much, God decides to save some of the people that are openly rebelling against Him. If He chose to save all, then he wouldn't really be doing any saving, because there would be nothing to be saved from. So in a sense God is choosing his own people. That is a very simplistic explanation, but the story of the Bible is of God choosing, and not the other way around. The Israelites didn't choose God, he chose them, the Disciples didnt choose Jesus, he chose them, and the story of the Gospel is that Jesus died for his chosen people. A Calvinist would tell you that God's call is a requirement for relationship, but in the same sentence would say that personal responsibility is equally important. It is a concept that the Bible calls for, but no one can really get their head around. We are chosen, yet we are called to spread the Gospel and be responsible for our own actions.