I was poor and didn't work hard at all, cheated alot through high school, got into wake and didn't go to 1/3rd of the classes but it was half free college and half loans that weren't too bad ($30-40k), but 10 years later these kids coming out with loans like $150k and they're just fucked.
My best friend growing up was just as poor, not quite as good of grades or SAT score, but still strong enough to get into GT (which was his dream school, to go engineering). I think the only difference between our two situations is my dad went to UVA so I always just assumed I'd go to the ACC. I even got into UVA as 10th in my class with a 3.5 GPA, when our Valedictorian with a 4.0 GPA didn't get into UVA.
So Legacy made a difference as well as just the expectation of me applying to an ACC school, and I ended up doing so. I don't think my best friend even applied for GT, I think he just assumed he couldn't afford it and/or his parents didn't really push him. Ended up going the community school route like his parents did and he has been a manager at a local pest control company with 3 kids and spent 10 years living with his mother in law.