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Chat Thread, in which numerous #olds discuss #mattresses

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dashionista said:
well, he hasn't asked me out. :shrug:

we've hung out multiple times in groups, he texts me a lot, last weekend he invited himself out to go dancing with me and two friends and stayed out til 1am despite not drinking (i was impressed) but i stupidly flirted with a diff dude. if he likes me, he just hasn't done anything about it-- or thinks that i've friendzoned him.

he's also like out of my league attractive. seriously looks like a Ken doll.
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Ken has no dick.
 
Deacsfan27 said:
You got friend zoned by a Mormon?

Also, you got friend zoned by a dude?

Who are all these men out here just trying to be friends with women? I don't get it.
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Are you saying you've never blown a girl off ?
 
dashionista said:
well, he hasn't asked me out. :shrug:

we've hung out multiple times in groups, he texts me a lot, last weekend he invited himself out to go dancing with me and two friends and stayed out til 1am despite not drinking (i was impressed) but i stupidly flirted with a diff dude. if he likes me, he just hasn't done anything about it-- or thinks that i've friendzoned him.

he's also like out of my league attractive. seriously looks like a Ken doll.
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He's not friend zoning you. He's just awkward about it and doesn't know how to make the first move. If you initiate then he will oblige.
 
bym051d said:
Perhaps I'm being to old school, but unless my company had treated me poorly, I would not feel comfortable giving short notice. I also wouldn't want to work for a company that asked me to do so.
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notice is a professional courtesy

i have left two companies now with pretty short notice each time and kept up a very good professional relationship with each

the trick is not being so indispensable they're scrambling to replace you

all my shit is so well documented that anyone (with basic skills) could step in to fill the role
 
TownieDeac said:
just gave notice

that was hard
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How long of notice? I thought you got them to way push back the start date. Although I did the same thing, gave super long notice to my last boss


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Deacsfan27 said:
He's not friend zoning you. He's just awkward about it and doesn't know how to make the first move. If you initiate then he will oblige.
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alright, i'm seeing him tonight at kickball and then maybe again this weekend at a pool party.

all-knowing chat thread: tell me what i should do and i will do it.
 
dashionista said:
alright, i'm seeing him tonight at kickball and then maybe again this weekend at a pool party.

all-knowing chat thread: tell me what i should do and i will do it.
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Well if you like him don't flirt with other dudes in front of him. This will prompt some dudes into action, but if he's already shy about it then it's likely sending mixed signals off in his head and he's overthinking it/scared of being rejected by you.

Arm touches, isolate him for one on one convos, flirt a bit. During this time just see how he responds, if you're getting a positive vibe then ask him out for drinks at some point where it's just you two.

If he declines or whatever then you'll know he's not interested. My thoughts are he's interested and just being a beta male (I know this because I too am a beta male).
 
dashionista said:
alright, i'm seeing him tonight at kickball and then maybe again this weekend at a pool party.

all-knowing chat thread: tell me what i should do and i will do it.
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Don't ask him out. Won't work. Just wait till you're both wasted and make it immensely clear you'll bone that night. Then put on the best performance of your life.


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How's the townie split beT going? I feel like this was a loser otherwise we'd be getting #updates. What's on the line again?


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TownieDeac said:
notice is a professional courtesy

i have left two companies now with pretty short notice each time and kept up a very good professional relationship with each

the trick is not being so indispensable they're scrambling to replace you

all my shit is so well documented that anyone (with basic skills) could step in to fill the role
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Sounds perfect for Chupe.
 
Random bkf posts taking down a doofi on a random ESPN thread really make my morning.

He's the best


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palmab03 said:
Random bkf posts taking down a doofi on a random ESPN thread really make my morning.

He's the best


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lol how in the world did he "take me down"?

He called me out for condemning another poster who showed not even the slightest hint of human decency towards another person.
 
Deacsfan27 said:
lol how in the world did he "take me down"?

He called me out for condemning another poster who showed not even the slightest hint of human decency towards another person.
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Well for starters by getting you to post a serious response to the boards most creative parody


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Deacsfan27 said:
Well if you like him don't flirt with other dudes in front of him. This will prompt some dudes into action, but if he's already shy about it then it's likely sending mixed signals off in his head and he's overthinking it/scared of being rejected by you.

Arm touches, isolate him for one on one convos, flirt a bit. During this time just see how he responds, if you're getting a positive vibe then ask him out for drinks at some point where it's just you two.

If he declines or whatever then you'll know he's not interested. My thoughts are he's interested and just being a beta male (I know this because I too am a beta male).
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palmab03 said:
Don't ask him out. Won't work. Just wait till you're both wasted and make it immensely clear you'll bone that night. Then put on the best performance of your life.


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too bad he doesn't drink :(
 
dashionista said:
too bad he doesn't drink :(
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I feel like we're up to the 15th time a pitbroad has had a dude she liked that didn't make a move on him, and the previous 14 times someone said "oh he's just beta, just make a move" and all 14 times it was more just he's not into them. Guys will let you know if they want more than friendship. Ya don't need to do anything.
 
palmab03 said:
I feel like we're up to the 15th time a pitbroad has had a dude she liked that didn't make a move on him, and the previous 14 times someone said "oh he's just beta, just make a move" and all 14 times it was more just he's not into them. Guys will let you know if they want more than friendship. Ya don't need to do anything.
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i tend to agree, which is why i prefaced this whole thing with "pretty sure i'm friendzoned" since he hasn't asked me out.
 
dashionista said:
i tend to agree, which is why i prefaced this whole thing with "pretty sure i'm friendzoned" since he hasn't asked me out.
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Doesn't mean ya shouldn't arm touch, just don't ask him out


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