Here is why I find ISIS/Radical Islam to be a much greater threat than gun violence to our nation. Your point about the odds of me personally being killed by a random act of gun violence vs. by a terrorist are clearly accurate. The stats bear that out, and I don't disagree with that point. However, I don't view our national security in light of simply the odds of my own personal safety. See here is the point (at least for me). Gun violence is real, and I think that I have made myself clear previously that there are common sense measures that make sense. However, while the NRA clearly has an agenda (motivated primarily by profit), the individual acts of gun violence do not. A 4 year old shooting his brother, a 19 year old shooting a store clerk, and a 40 year old wife who finds her husband sleeping around and shoots him have zero connection. They are all essentially random acts of violence. We certainly need to do our best to reduce those acts, and I am not understating that, but that is not a true national security issue for me. Random acts of gun violence do not threaten to fundamentally change the way we live.
Radical Islam, on the other hand, has a clear agenda and it is connected with every act of violence. From Paris, the the world trade center, to Benghazi, to Bangladesh, or Orlando, etc... they are all interconnected via Jihad. The goal of radical Islam is world domination and left to its own devices it will become an exponential threat to the world. The numbers are staggering when you realize how many practicing members of the Muslim faith are sympathetic or downright approve of the terrorist actions, and even more who approve of barbaric human rights violations (beheadings, chopping off limbs, stonings, etc...). Again, all religion in some ways are proselytistic (I think that is a word), but Islam has no issue, and in fact the modern interpretation of the Quran by a millions of people encourages the advancement of the Caliphate through both political and violent means.
Radical, dedicated ideologies are always a major factor in any geopolitical cake that baked. Consider Che Guevera, Communism, and Cuba. Che, Castro, and 80 soldiers landed on the shores of Cuba in 1956 and three years later he had control of the country. 19 dedicated soldiers hatched a plan 15 years ago and brought our country to its needs. Radical Islam is not simply going to disappear into the night. It is THE major threat of our time, and the first step to defeating the problem is simply admitting that it is THE problem.
So that is why I have a real problem with sugarcoating the issue. I have made it clear that I am not on board with Trump's ideas of deporting Muslims or banning immigration if you are muslim. In fact I find that to be counter productive, but we do need to be honest about the real problem. When I see multiple board posters here that I respect being so naive about this issue it is concerning. Yes, I am much more likely to be killed by a handgun in my hometown. I understand that. That does not mean that handguns are a bigger global or national security threat than the advancement of Radical Islam. I hope that explains my position. We seem to fundamentally disagree, and I believe that the other side of this issue (Millhouse, ONW, etc...) are misusing stats to prop up an argument that has no real world, common sense basis.