I'm very much of the accord that if someone chooses not to get vaccinated, that is on them. My problem (which I have mentioned before) is that I have a compromised 3 year old at home, so not only is he unvaccinated, but also at higher risk for a bad case. Even though my wife and I are vaxxed and boosted, and my daughter is vaxxed, we still are very cautious. Even we have had to loosen up some, because it is negatively affecting my son's social development. My parents are fully vaxxed and boosted, and we are making them take tests Friday before they come in for the holidays.
I understand most people thinking "I'm vaxxed, I should be fine regardless," but there are certainly others in my situation who don't have that luxury. Moreover, I don't know if someone that isn't wearing a mask is vaxxed or not, because if someone isn't going to get vaxxed to protect others, they certainly aren't going to wear a mask to do so. Unfortunately, that's just where things are now. Partially because people suck, and partially because we are rapidly approaching the fall of society as we know it (relatively speaking). So I don't think that blaming people for being ultra cautious is terribly productive. Some people can be comfortable that they have done what they need to do, but others need to be more cautious. If you need to go after someone, go after the people who are preying on the stupidity/gullibility of others and trying to make things worse for society instead of better.