Yeah but her rephrasing does address what you said in response to that tweet in a few posts, which is that other racial groups are okay with the messaging and, for the reason, the messaging might be the problem.
Again, you're an empiricist - you can look at the data. The only racial group that consistently votes for Democrats are Black people, but that number is actually showing that Black women are the only demographic group in the US that consistently votes for Democrats and turns out for elections. Middle aged and older black men, like men of most demographic backgrounds, are becoming increasingly fascist curious with this contemporary GOP. (I don't know why you're ignoring my posts about age, but if you look at the data, the real distinctions are all age-related, whether crossed by race, gender, or nativity status.)
The data complicates any interpretation that the messaging is working. Asian and Latinx voters, in particular, are leaving the Democratic Party in numbers that should be concerning to people who care about things like politics, rights, etc.
If the only point that you're interested in discussing is "white people need to see to their own before criticizing other groups" then I don't think you'll find many people pushing back on that point. But you're conflating a bunch of points in your argument, most of which are not supported by the actual data.