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Sayreville, NJ high school football scandal

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Sounds like another case of hazing gone way too far...possible criminal charges being discussed.



http://www.nj.com/middlesex/index.s...l_nature_of_locker_room_ritual_exclusive.html

It came without warning.

It would start with a howling noise from a senior football player at Sayreville War Memorial High School, and then the locker room lights were abruptly shut off.

In the darkness, a freshman football player would be pinned to the locker room floor, his arms and feet held down by multiple upperclassmen. Then, the victim would be lifted to his feet while a finger was forced into his rectum. Sometimes, the same finger was then shoved into the freshman player’s mouth.

This disturbing hazing within the storied Sayreville football program, as told to NJ Advance Media on Wednesday by the parent of a player in the program, happened almost every day in the locker room this fall, he said.

The allegations — revealed for the first time — provide details to the events that sparked a criminal investigation by local and county police, and prompted the cancellation of the remainder of the Sayreville football season this week by Superintendent of Schools Richard Labbe.

The parent, informed by his son and other parents close to the investigation, is the first to come forward to reveal the hazing practices Labbe has characterized as “incidences of harassment, intimidation and bullying as constituted by the definition within the anti-bullying statute that took place on a pervasive level, on a wide-scale level, and at a level in which the players knew, tolerated, and in general accepted.”

According to the parent, whose identity is being protected because the parent feared retribution against the family and the player, the routine was initiated when an upperclassman would enter the locker room and make a wolf call or howling noise.
UPDATE: Everything we know as of Thursday morning “[For] 10 seconds, the lights would go off and they would grab a freshman and they would go on,” the parent said. “Right on the floor. … It was happening every day. They would get the freshmen.”

He added: “Kids would just sit around and witness [stuff] like this.”

Detectives from the Middlesex County Prosecutors Office and the Sayreville Police Department are investigating the allegations, but officials have refused to reveal any specifics about the case. The parent said his son and several other Sayreville players have been questioned by police. No charges have been filed. The parent also said he is in the process of retaining an attorney.

“These parents here, they’re in shock,” the parent said. “We never expected anything like this to happen. Your kid, he’s going to school, school’s got to be a place where you think the kid is the safest.”

When told of the specific allegations over the phone Wednesday, Labbe declined to comment. He referred to his previous comments calling the allegations “very serious.”

The Middlesex County Prosecutor's Office declined comment on the allegations detailed by the Sayreville parent. Also, David Abromaitis, a detective in the office, declined comment Wednesday when reached by phone.

The parent said the “ringleaders” involved in the hazing are seniors.
MORE: Coaches should be fired if hazing allegations are true | Politi

Madeline Thillet, speaking at Tuesday night’s board of education meeting, said her son was one of the members of the team interviewed by investigators. She downplayed the hazing while protesting the cancellation of the season.

“I was at the police station with him when they were questioning him,” she said. “They were talking about a butt being grabbed. That’s about it. No one was hurt. No one died. I don’t understand why they’re being punished. I think that the forfeited game was punishment enough.”

Mother of Dylan Thillet Sayreville football player speaks to School Board Mother of Dylan Thillet Sayreville football player speaks to School Board and says 'I was at the police station with him when they were questioning him. They were talking about a butt being grabbed' as the Sayreville football season is canceled (Video by Adya Beasley | NJ Advance Media for NJ.com)

The parent said he could not “understand how none of the coaches were aware of it. As a coach, you know what’s going on in your clubhouse. You know what’s going on in the locker room.”

On Oct. 1, Labbe said he was alerted to an anonymous allegation made to Sayreville police about a serious incident of inappropriate conduct —possibly more — by members of the football team. The next day, the matter was turned over to the Middlesex County prosecutor and Labbe canceled Sayreville’s football games — varsity, junior varsity and freshman contests — last weekend against rival South Brunswick.

Then, on Friday, in a separate incident, an attorney for assistant coach Charles Garcia said his client had resigned after details of his arrest for steroids possession surfaced.

On Monday, Labbe announced he was canceling the rest of the season.

The hazing allegations have turned Sayreville’s no frills, blue-collar community upside-down, as both local and national news vans and media reporters have descended on the town, scouring the streets and interviewing people in parking lots and strip malls.

Many Sayreville residents have expressed outrage over the cancellation of the football season. The varsity team, nicknamed the Bombers, has made the playoffs in each of the past 20 seasons, and Sayreville has captured three state championships over the past four years, feeding nearby Rutgers University with a host of elite players.

Sayreville longtime football coach George Najjar declined comment when reached by phone Wednesday.
MORE: Just the beginning of a legal firestorm for Sayreville?

More than a hundred Sayreville residents attended Tuesday night’s previously scheduled board of education meeting to urge the members to reconsider the decision to cancel the season. The crowd, at times, grew heated and animated, but the board affirmed the decision to end the football season.

Afterward, about a hundred people gathered under the lights on the football field, lingering for about 15 minutes, gazing across the impressive stadium, until it was time to go home.

Vernal Coleman and Sue Epstein of NJ Advance Media contributed to this report.
 
That's rape. Seniors are raping freshmen in the name of ritualized hazing. Why do they deserve to play football?
 
Season should be cancelled. All football coaches and the school AD fired. Principal should be transferred or fired if the district is too small. Completely inexcusable.
 
Unless you are gay or jaybone, why do you want to stick your finger up another dude's ass?
 
Not to mention the assistant coach getting busted with steroids...if you're asking why the coaching staff didn't know or didn't say anything, it's probably because they were trying to cover their ass for roided up teenagers who were getting the juice from their own coaches.
 
Unless you are gay or jaybone, why do you want to stick your finger up another dude's ass?

Because it's your right as a senior football player. You earned that right when somebody did it to you as a freshman and stuck with the program for four years. Now it's your time. Not to mention you've probably seen the ritual performed 50+ times in your time as a player, so now you're desensitized to it.
 
That's rape. Seniors are raping freshmen in the name of ritualized hazing. Why do they deserve to play football?

Agreed 100%.

WTF motivates people to treat others, in this case their own teammates, like this? Shoving fingers in some poor kid's ass while he is being held down? Somebody needs to be prosecuted.
 
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Agreed 100%.

WTF motivates people to treat others, in this case their own teammates, like this? Shoving fingers in some poor kid's ass while he is being held down? Somebody needs to be prosecuted.


+1. LOTS and LOTS of people need to be losing their jobs over this one. Starting with the AD, ALL coaches and perhaps other administrators with knowledge of the situation.
 
One of my high school teammates transferred to our school after two years playing at Sayreville. This was in the late 80's. There was nothing like that going on there then. This guy was a devout Catholic (cue jokes) and used to get onto us for swearing during games and practice and drinking/fucking/partying at post-game parties. Sad how things take a fucked up turn.
 
This is basically the same as [name redacted] running your basketball program. You are getting ass raped every day.

I hope the seniors involved have charges filed against them and that they are found guilty in court and that their behavior negatively impacts the rest of their lives. Fucking assholes raping freshmen under the name of hazing. Karma should have them getting ass raped in prison while serving time for their crimes.

Kudos to the freshmen that had the courage to come forward and speak to their parents.
 
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The part that makes me cringe is the parents who are upset over the loss of the football season.

Fucking football.

Kids...children...were getting RAPED and your primary worry is about playing football?
 
I don't understand what the big deal is. These types of hazings are just part of a coming of age for all teenagers who are transitioning from boys to men. High school football teaches valuable life-long lessons about dealing with adversity, taking your punishments, and growing bigger, stronger, and better because of it - all while standing with your teammates. This is just further evidence of political correctness running amok and this is what happens when you let a bunch of sissy liberals who didn't get to sit with the cool kids at lunch in high school make the rules.

This is disgusting. Let the men play. #freeSayreville
















(Just preempting this comment which will assuredly roll in from some of the 40+ white guy crowd)
 
One could assume this has been an ongoing thing. Does this mean the seniors engaging in this activity were the victims of it as well?

Going to be difficult getting past the punishing other victims aspect.


Still....wtf is the point of this?....why would anyone voluntarily do that? People are weird.
 
Still....wtf is the point of this?....why would anyone voluntarily do that? People are weird.

DeaconSlim, let me break it down for you. There are two types of guys in this world: men who can handle their shit and boys who can't. What chance does a person have of taking the punishments doled out in the real world if they complain about a good-natured finger up the butthole against their will?

The real question is what is the downside to not REQUIRING this kind of team bonding in high schools across the country?
 
DeaconSlim, let me break it down for you. There are two types of guys in this world: men who can handle their shit and boys who can't. What chance does a person have of taking the punishments doled out in the real world if they complain about a good-natured finger up the butthole against their will?

The real question is what is the downside to not REQUIRING this kind of team bonding in high schools across the country?

Why do you act like such a douchebag?
 
This is basically the same as [name redacted] running your basketball program. You are getting ass raped every day.

I hope the seniors involved have charges filed against them and that they are found guilty in court and that their behavior negatively impacts the rest of their lives. Fucking assholes raping freshmen under the name of hazing. Karma should have them getting ass raped in prison while serving time for their crimes.

Kudos to the freshmen that had the courage to come forward and speak to their parents.

Although these kids should certainly face consequences for their actions, a mistake that they made at 17 years old shouldn't ruin their lives. Calm yourself.
 
Numbers breaking sarcasm-meter hearts all over the world tonight.
 
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