I see. My confusion came from you saying "I have never heard a top coach take this approach". That line takes for granted that Bz's SOP is to shirk responsibility, which is a damning claim. I don't like that quote, but plenty of coaches have similar, or worse quotes. I don't think Bz is especially harsh on players. It is something to fuel the fire though with how much people dislike him.
Agreed. These kids are 18-22 year old guys that are getting a full ride at WF to play basketball. They themselves would tell you they deserve a lot of the things Bzz is saying when they screw up or have a bad play. It's not a bad thing to learn to take responsibility for things. Bzz isn't any worse than any other D1 coach.