Here's another instance of something more challenging to comprehend if you've not experienced it, but being a regular and having the bartender know you and hook you up is an experience worth the extra $$$ from the outset. Don't delude yourself into thinking it's free, but the perks are great.
There's a fine line between "perks" and "stuff you basically paid for in advance via huge tips"
but at Olive Garden i should pay a bigger tip if i ordered an entree instead of just soup and a salad?
Fine, but that line doesn't really matter if you're enjoying your experience more.
The intersection of perception and logic is a funny thing.
Yes. Servers and bartenders are often evaluated on their overall tip percentage, especially relative to their peers. If you tip the same on a $15 check as you would on a $30 check, the server looks bad, just because you didn't feel like forking over an extra $3, regardless of their service or your experience. Again, reason #658 why everyone should spend at least some time working in one of these industries.
Also, don't eat at Olive Garden.
this is clearly insanity. the customer is not responsible for how their evaluated by their boss or peers. i'm not ordering apps and 'zerts so the server gets extra kudos at the end of the night.
tipping servers and bartenders well is part of the deal if you want to be a grownup and do nice things, IMO. It's also a nice way to help out people you actually appreciate, like the neighborhood concubine.
I know how you get down.
Cheap bastards, the lot of ye.
I never give a tip if I order only one bottle of beer at a bar.
I tip $1 for each beer.