Deacfreak07
Ain't played nobody, PAWL!
Put me in the 2.5 year old bedtime routine nightmare camp. Uggggh.
He started climbing out of his crib right around 2 and 2-3 months, so we converted it to a toddler bed, and he was really fine for a while. Sometimes had to go in a few times after initial door closing, but would generally get to sleep eventually. Mostly it was that he wasn't super tired if he napped during the afternoon (he needs WAY less sleep than our older daughter).
About 2.5 weeks ago we did potty training, and it actually went surprisingly really well. Took like 4 days to get the hang of it, but since day 5 he basically hasn't had any daytime accidents. Still doing pull-ups at night, but they are probably dry 5/7 nights.
But recently bedtimes have been insanely difficult. I think it's a combo of not being super tired and also having a big attachment thing going on recently (he's also been very clingy and crying at nannyshare drop off and not wanting us to leave him, etc). But it's exacerbated by the potty training because he knows that having to go potty is a way he can get us to come back in and / or he can leave his room (lots of "poo poo coming out right now!" "my body is telling me I need to go pee pee"). If he was trying his usual tricks of one more rock, need a bandaid, rub my back, etc we would probably ignore. But now he combos those requests up with the bathroom thing and I feel like we can't deny a request for the bathroom (even if he's already been 7 times within the lat 30 min).
Any tips along those lines? I know we could do the stay in the room til he falls asleep thing (totally respect the people that go this route!), but given that often times he doesn't even really seem tired, I do not relish the idea of being held captive in there for 1-2 hours of my limited evening time. I read one suggestion about offering that if he's quiet and stays in bed for 5 min that we'll come back in and give him another kiss and hug - and then keep extending that time. Anyone tried anything like that for an attachment issue at bedtime?
Stop giving him rock before bed maybe?