Wakeforest22890
Snowpom
Next you’re gonna tell me it’s too far to be naked in bed with someone of the opposite sex who isn’t your significant other. God damn Puritans on here playing Mother May I
Where do we draw the line? Lunch with former co worker who is opposite sex? Drinks after work with good friend of opposite sex from school and or co worker? Dinner with good friend of opposite sex who is married and you’re also married?
How do you even function day to day if you can't handle 1-1 interactions with someone of the opposite sex? Get it together geez
Where do we draw the line? Lunch with former co worker who is opposite sex? Drinks after work with good friend of opposite sex from school and or co worker? Dinner with good friend of opposite sex who is married and you’re also married?
To each their own.
I'm pretty sure 50% of marriages end because it's a crappy marriage. Not that a spouse has a friend, co-worker etc of the opposite sex that they may see socially or work related alone sometimes. I happen to think not having relationships outside your marriage makes that marriage harder. Puts more pressure on the spouse to be everything for each other leading to resentment, lack of "self" etc. Also makes it more likely "you" will have a tougher time saying no if something ever presents itself.
Yeah I mean you don't even allow yourself to get lunch with a coworker?
I go to lunch with female co workers often. Usually there are 3 or 4 of us. Sometimes more.
Clarify: you mean for everyone or for adults? I think Halloween is great for kids. When grown ass adults start having costume parties and shit, that's where I draw the line.
How do you menage to focus on the meal?
How do you menage to focus on the meal?
I work downtown and so do most of my friends either from law school or former jobs. We meet up for lunch in one-on-one settings frequently. Chat about work, life, shoot the shit, whatever. Similarly, once every couple weeks I plan to meet up with people sometimes only one other person can come (most of my friends in this area/former co-workers are female). My girlfriend doesn't work downtown so she wouldn't come downtown just to meet us.
On the flip side, my girlfriend works in a heavily male-dominated industry and frequently gets lunch, dinner, or drinks with male co-workers. Hell twice this week she went out to dinner with a male just the two of them - one a former coworker, one a mentor type.
I'm not judging anyone, but I'm definitely with Louis Gossett - had no idea this was a thing at all. I mean this is absolutely wild. Makes me wonder what other stuff people do that I have no idea about.