greekdeac2011
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This is kind of a rant and advice needed thread.
So I posted about this girl I was hanging out with in the #shewomanmanhatersclub a few weeks ago about taking her to a wedding. Well, I did that and we have continued to hang out since. Last night, we went out and I was invited over for happy hour to meet a friend and she said she wanted to go too. So she did. I had been telling my friends we were not dating, but after a few drinks last night, they started asking her if we were dating, etc, etc. She didn't say anything about it last night, but this morning she texted me and said we shouldn't hang out anymore except in group settings, which we've never ever done, because she didn't want everyone in our social circles thinking we were dating. I basically told her I wanted no part in that because we never hung out with groups anyway.
But really, if she is so worried about it, why did she volunteer to go to a wedding with me? Constantly want to hang out? Get all touchy feeling in public? Post pictures of us kissing on facebook and tag ourselves in them? Is she just an idiot thinking no one would think we were dating? Whatever, I told her I wanted no part in some game, and if she was that embarrassed according to what some other people think, then she should really stop hanging out with me period.
Granted, this is my friends fault too for getting drunk and acting like that, but still. She's acting like a child. Don't fucking ask me to hang out and don't act like you're my girlfriend if you're so horrified at that idea.
So I posted about this girl I was hanging out with in the #shewomanmanhatersclub a few weeks ago about taking her to a wedding. Well, I did that and we have continued to hang out since. Last night, we went out and I was invited over for happy hour to meet a friend and she said she wanted to go too. So she did. I had been telling my friends we were not dating, but after a few drinks last night, they started asking her if we were dating, etc, etc. She didn't say anything about it last night, but this morning she texted me and said we shouldn't hang out anymore except in group settings, which we've never ever done, because she didn't want everyone in our social circles thinking we were dating. I basically told her I wanted no part in that because we never hung out with groups anyway.
But really, if she is so worried about it, why did she volunteer to go to a wedding with me? Constantly want to hang out? Get all touchy feeling in public? Post pictures of us kissing on facebook and tag ourselves in them? Is she just an idiot thinking no one would think we were dating? Whatever, I told her I wanted no part in some game, and if she was that embarrassed according to what some other people think, then she should really stop hanging out with me period.
Granted, this is my friends fault too for getting drunk and acting like that, but still. She's acting like a child. Don't fucking ask me to hang out and don't act like you're my girlfriend if you're so horrified at that idea.